Aleksandra Shymina Systemic Family Constellations and Rituals
Systemic Ritual is a process designed by Daan van Kampenhout in Amsterdam and now practiced all over the world. It combines systemic family constellations method with shamanic ritual to create a healing and resourcing process. Aleksandra runs systemic ritual evenings in London and applies some of its elements in constellation circles and private sessions. It is also possible to request a personalised systemic ritual. For more details please contact Aleksandra. For more details on the systemic ritual community in the UK please visit www.systemicweb.co.uk
Be it wedding, birth-day, stepping into motherhood or buying a house there is a way to make an important life event even more meaningful by adding a ritual to it. It could be a small gesture or sentence said in the right time, or a fully designed systemic wedding ceremony reflecting systemic orders.
Constellation work often shows that the union of two people, in fact, is a union of two family systems. Adding a tailored ritual to the wedding ceremony will reflect systemic principles and include them into couple's life from the very beginning. Acknowledging everyone and everything that went into your making; realising that all of it is present in the couple relationship together with everything that went into your partner's making - could relax and harmonise the relationship. Similar to the healing ritual, the wedding systemic ritual is based on the intention and vision of the couple. Please contact Aleksandra for more information and examples of how this could work for you.
Another big life changing event is becoming a mother (father). Taking your life fully from your ancestors and passing it on to the new generation, welcoming the new life on Earth and to your family, seeing and acknowledging your new status within your own family system - these are all elements that could be included into a ritual for new mothers. Similarly, when your children are grown up, marking their passage into adulthood and recognising your own shift into the new stage of life could be celebrated in a meaningful way through a systemic ritual.
Rituals can be designed for:
Coming of age
Change in circumstance
Individual Systemic Ritual session
Combining the principles of shamanism and the method of systemic constellations Aleksandra designs an individual ritual for your situation. It is often a powerful way to resource and strengthen yourself, get healing, and recharge your energy. You will need to contact Aleksandra in advance of the session to discuss the issue so that there is enough time to design the ritual.