Family Constellations are like a magic mirror on the wall – revealing the truth of what is. Similar to the queen we ask the question already expecting specific answer. And again similar to her we might get confused, upset, angry and disappointed with the result. Of course we want something to change otherwise we wouldn’t be here. But sometimes we confuse the constellation with a painkiller. Take one and feel better. If the result is not what we expected and the magic solve-it-all formula hasn’t been applied, there may be a feeling of being tricked, let down, mislead.
Constellation is not a quick fixer. Although a very power method it cannot substitute your own learning and growth. It releases new energy for you to use on the journey of your soul, it aligns the strings attached to you to the universal love so that you are resourced to get to where you want to be. But it cannot get you there. It is your job and responsibility.
The good news is that when you set the intention you launch yourself on a path of getting there. Whether within one constellation or within the next six months, or two years your intention will be met. At exactly the right time for you. Initial constellation may be a first step on this path that is followed by synchronicities of the right people, right events and right timing to fulfill your heart’s desire. Have trust you have been heard.
I am fascinated by the Systemic Family Constellations work and everything shamanic. I study it, practice it, research it. Here, I am sharing what I learn and hope it can be of use to somebody interested in healing their families, communities and lives.
In 2019 I published some of my poetry inspired by systemic work in this journal. It is available as PDF, Kindle or printed at the link above.