becoming a good ancestor

Have you ever wondered what kind of an ancestor you are?

A resourceful, powerful, well ancestor, that offers strong support and wise guidance for the future generations or a burdened, entangled, confused, and lost ancestor who is just not available to offer anything, still being preoccupied with personal and systemic unfinished business? Or possibly a bit of both?

The legacy we leave to the future, starts with ourselves in the present, in this very moment. The more we are loving our life, the more we are connected to the world around us and ourselves, the more rooted we are into our bodies and lineages - the more our legacy will be supportive to those who come after us. Learning our lessons, processing our feelings and pain, resolving our own entanglements - all contribute to our wellbeing and to our being resourceful ancestors. 
Just as our present moment is influenced by all those who came before us on a personal and collective level, our here and now will impact the future generations in more ways than we can imagine. So, in the Becoming a Good Ancestor programme we begin with looking back to release the entanglements, looking into the now to step fully into our power to be able to look into the future with a peace of mind. On this journey we are weaving together our personal inner work and the ancestral work. 
In the video above I guide you into a mediation to connect with your parents and ancestors to see how available you are to your own life. When parts of us are staying with our parents, for whatever reason good or bad, especially if there has been a lot of pain and suffering in childhood, we are not fully available to our own life and to the future. Our inner child still feels responsible for fixing parent’s life, rescuing, atoning, being loyal to be fully accepted, to belong, to survive. If we step up to become our own best adult to support our inner little one to feel safe and belonging no matter what, it will be possible for us to leave the parent’s fate to themselves.

And not just parents - previous seven generations of our ancestors are still influencing our lives on so many different levels and most of them are unconscious, hidden among our ego, defences and limiting beliefs.
Becoming a Good Ancestor (BaGA) programme starts this month. Together we will be going on a journey to inspire a more meaningful, wholehearted life in full connection with our ancestors, inner child and nature.


You can find more information on BaGA here